Whether you're a total neophyte or a grizzled gambling veteran, casinos and cardrooms can be intimidating. Maybe it's all the stern faces. Maybe it's the fact that most places just assume players know how to play. Heck, maybe it's because some people just aren't very friendly. Here are five ways to change the vibe.
Do your homework: Intimidation often comes from a lack of knowledge about a new situation. Educate yourself about the experience before you go. Boning up on table games is easy; there are dozens of websites out there to walk you through how to play. (My favorite is www.wizardofodds.com.) You can hit the Web for primers on specific casinos and cardrooms, too.
Watch and learn: You pick up a ton just watching a game unfold. Yes, you will feel ridiculous doing nothing but watching other people win or lose. But once you get over that awkwardness - provided you're really paying attention - you'll learn most of what you need to sit down and play. (A gentle warning: If you're not playing, do not interact with players unless they interact with you first. This is bad form. The house also could consider it cheating.)
Play dumb: It's hard to spite an idiot. With this in mind, one of the best ways to break through stares of opponents and cardroom personnel is to make it clear you don't have a clue. Curious about a particular game? Ask the dealer to explain. Wondering about house rules? Have other players set you straight. Sooner or later, you'll get the answers you seek. If you don't, there's always another casino or cardroom down the road.
Bring a wingman (or woman): Most situations are less intimidating when you experience them with a buddy. It's best to bring a friend with commanding knowledge of gambling; this way he or she can address questions or concerns you might have over the course of the night. Even if your pal isn't a card sharp, having him or her by your side will make the experience more comfortable. (Just make sure you're actually paying attention if you find yourself risking big money.)
Join the un-fun: If you're determined to tough out a room full of cold shoulders but don't feel like being proactive about it, you always can try the "can't beat 'em, join 'em" approach. This means trying on your own poker face - and keeping it on for the duration of your visit. No, this strategy won't make you any friends. It will, however, put you in perfect position to focus your energy on what matters most when you're gambling: the odds to win.
Matt Villano is a Healdsburg freelance writer. E-mail: 96hours@sfchronicle.com Twitter: @mattvillano
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